
The power of goals

From July/August 2006 Psoriasis Advance
How one man cleared the hurdle of psoriasis to run the New York City Marathon
Scott Urner knows just how unpredictable and
life-altering psoriasis can be. A year ago in
June, several months into training for the New York
City Marathon, Urner's skin erupted into erythrodermic
psoriasis—his first psoriasis outbreak ever.
Within two months—his marathon training
disrupted—Urner's psoriasis had covered most
of his body. His ankles filled up with fluid, and
Urner finally checked himself into a Los Angeles
emergency room. He learned that he has a serious
form of psoriasis that causes widespread, fiery
redness and can affect the body's temperature
regulation, fluid levels and other functions.
Remarkably, with the help of expert medical
treatment through the University of California Los
Angeles, and a large dose of determination, Urner
went on to run the New York City Marathon six
weeks later—finishing the 26.2 mile race in the top
20 percent of participants.
Urner credits his positive attitude and ability to set
goals for helping him fulfill his dream. "I told the
doctor, 'I still want to go. I don't want this thing to
get in the way of my life.' "
Learning to set and achieve goals, even small, day-to-
day accomplishments, can help restore a sense of
control—especially for people living with chronic,
unpredictable diseases such as psoriasis. "You need
to have something that's more than your disease,"
notes Tena Brown, a psoriasis consultant who has
lived with psoriasis and psoriatic arthritis for more
than 30 years. "It should be something you can
look forward to, and something that should light
you up."
For Urner, that "something" was the marathon.
But setting smaller goals can be equally empowering—
the main point is to choose an attainable goal
for yourself and stick with it.
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How to reach your mileposts
There are many ways you can empower yourself
in your daily life. It might be setting a goal
of living a healthier lifestyle, taking charge of
your treatment options, advocating for the
psoriasis community—or anything else that is
important to you.
Psoriasis consultant Tena Brown and other
goal-setting experts offer these tips:
- Choose a goal that is specific, measurable
and realistic for you and your lifestyle.
- Write down your goal and place it where
you'll see it on a regular basis—in your car,
bedroom or on your bathroom mirror.
- Break the goal into small steps and take it
one step at a time.
- Set a date for reaching your goal, and
visualize yourself completing it.
- Keep a record of your progress so that you
can look back at your success.
- Reward yourself for your efforts.
- Have a "goal partner" who supports your
goal and can help you stay focused.
- Surround yourself with people who will
support you in your efforts.
- Stick with it for at least 21 days. It takes
three weeks to change a habit.
- Accept that there will be setbacks and have
a plan for when you get discouraged.
- Don't give up!
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According to goal-setting coaches, it's important to
break your goals down into manageable steps—and to have a plan to stay committed to your goal when there are setbacks.
Scott Urner's challenge was dealing with the
setback—and shock—of developing psoriasis for
the first time at age 32, in the middle of his marathon
training. Erythrodermic psoriasis is often
treated initially with topical steroids, to bring the
psoriasis under control. But it also can require
aggressive treatment with powerful systemic medications
for the psoriasis
as well as medications
to regulate body temperature
and swelling.
Urner was fortunate
that a prescription
topical steroid and
bedrest brought his
psoriasis under control
enough for him to
resume training for the marathon.
He started running a mile or two at a time, increased
it to four miles, six miles, then 10 miles—and
continued to set the bar higher until he was ready
for the race.
"It's about making a decision of what you want and
taking steps toward doing it," he says. "In my life,
I've taken what I could and used adversity to do
something. When I get knocked over, I do concrete
things. The marathon gave me something to
actually do."
Urner also took concrete actions when he was
feeling discouraged about his psoriasis. He
leaned on supportive friends and gained a sense
of control by learning everything he could about
the disease. He became a member of the National
Psoriasis Foundation and turned to the Psoriasis
Foundation online message board for support and
information.
Following the marathon, Urner filed an exuberant
online post for his friends: "Of course many of
you know that I was 90 percent covered and saw
myself to the ER just six weeks ago. With the
support from this site, I got the gumption to get
back running and kept my goal of running the
N.Y. marathon. And, no doubt, ran a personal best
by 15 minutes: 3 hours, 49 minutes!!"
Just weeks after he ran the marathon, Urner was
dealt another blow when his mother died. His
positive outlook and connections with friends
helped him through.
Life is improving for Urner. An inheritance from
his mother helped him
fund phototherapy treatment,
which cleared his
skin measurably. He has
also given up his day job
and is working full time
as a comedy writer and
actor.
"In a weird way, it's
been kind of a blessing,"
he says. "I had to go through this terrible thing
that summer, but I learned about my body, I'm
eating better, and my lifestyle has changed. It was
valuable."
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