At the age of 26, after having my son, I had a few little spots of psoriasis – a small patch on my left elbow and some irritation at my hairline on the back of my neck. It was nothing too serious; I just needed a topical, and I was good. But from 2009 to 2013, my psoriasis worsened with each flare to the point where my arms and legs were covered, and I needed to take methotrexate.
In a matter of years, I went from being a full-time model to a polka-dotted spectacle…or so I thought. I would get so upset simply from the looks I was getting – and not the good ones I was accustomed to – but looks of confusion and disgust. Those who dared vocalize my flares? Well, bless their hearts. Couldn’t these people see I was already having a bad day? Why would they ask if I am contagious, or my personal favorite, if I have AIDS?
My last severe flare, in 2015, took me on a journey I never thought possible. Sadly, neither did any of my doctors. I started with guttate psoriasis. Then I joined the 30 percent of people with psoriasis who are likely to also have psoriatic arthritis (PsA). In December 2015, strep throat attacked my body, and this triggered a flare that covered almost my entire body. I could have been an extra in a zombie movie sans the special effects.
Imagine my surprise when I went to my otolaryngologist – better known as your ear, nose and throat (ENT) doctor – to see about getting my tonsils removed. That was when I discovered I had lost 45 percent of my mid-range hearing in both ears.
None of my doctors – not my internist, not my ENT, not my dermatologist, not even my rheumatoid specialist – knew that PsA could cause hearing loss. It is rare, but it is possible. I am not great at math, but I am pretty sure the odds of me getting hit by a bus are greater than the odds of having PsA and tinnitus. So in a nutshell, I went from modeling to wearing hearing aids and carrying an arsenal of meds and sanitizer everywhere I go.
I was infuriated! But all that did was make it worse. I found comfort in researching and finding the source behind my daily migraines, my constant fever and aching lower back. But as a single mother with an MBA, research is no stranger to me.
Now I know that my struggle is my purpose. I went from hating having to explain my illness to people to finally realizing that I was actually educating them. I want to share my journey with other people who are just like me. I’m talking about those who are tired of being tired; those who want to scream every single time someone asks them to rate their pain from one to 10. Are you kidding? Sometimes I am not sure I know what pain is anymore.
But I do know this: my spots are a constellation of me fighting a daily struggle. They are my battle scars. I kept pushing, and you should too. My hearing loss motivated me to put more effort into music. I went from an average DJ to having nine consecutive mixes that topped the charts on one of the largest musical websites. I am better than ever at yoga, and for my last birthday, I got a bicycle so I can go riding with my son.
No matter what, I will continue to educate myself and others, and hopefully inspire a few people to do the same. So I will leave you with this: Trust your struggle, educate others and own it!
(Editor's note: See you on Monday, May 1, for Psoriatic Arthritis Action Week!)
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